Playback

Over the years, I’ve gotten rid of all the onsies, the high chair and the tricycles, most of the board books and lots & lots of toys.

My girls are 7 and nearly 10; plastic stacking cups and big-piece puzzles are in our rearview mirror.

Still, there were a few favorites I couldn’t bear to part with, and those are in big plastic bins waiting eagerly for babies and toddlers to come by for a visit.

Last week, one did.

So out came the Fisher Price barn, complete with hayloft and moo-ing doorway.
Our little visitor toyed with them all and then promptly fell asleep for the evening.

The barn was left to rest in its big plastic bin… for a bit.

Then, my 7-year-old — fledgling 2nd grader, reader of thick books and memorizer of big facts — pulled it out.
Every day for a week, in fact, she nonchalantly sauntered up to that barn and settled in next to it, talking quietly as she moved the farmer and friends from place to place. She was enchanted, and so was I.

It made me think about how long there is youthfulness inside each tall and competent body.
How long there is playfulness inside each student.
How long there is whimsy inside all these learning minds.

It made me think about how we rush things.
How we pack up the toys to make room for equipment and gear.
How we swap free time for lessons.
How  we stop reading aloud.

It made me think that we oughtn’t.
Really.
What’s the rush?

 

6 Responses to “Playback”

  1. saralholmes

    All you had to say was “mooing door” and I was swept by a huge wave of nostalgia. That door was genius. And the green tractor with the removable hitch. And the little hayloft doors that opened above the big ones. And the chickens. And the horse with the cute mane whose limbs moved. (I’m probably remembering the really old version–didn’t they update it?)

  2. tamarak

    Thanks for the reminder to slow down, catch my breath, and soak up the wonder of each moment with my kiddos.

  3. Anonymous

    Cheryl R

    I agree. You put that beautifully.

    I also think that many adults still have a little child inside them–or moments when they can reconnect to the child they were and see wonder in the world around them, or delight it small things…and that is beautiful.

    Cheryl